Great couple relationships are that way because the people involved have worked hard to overcome the challenges, differences and low points that have arisen over time. They have avoided being trapped in negative cycles of behaviour and the harmful dynamics that can so easily become the norm, or, learned how to nurture and optimally care for themselves and their partner.
I help couples to understand why they react the way they do by exploring their past, attachments, traumas and learned behaviour, how to calm themselves and honour their partner by understanding that person’s triggers and pain—all the messy stuff that comes with relationship, regardless of how much you are in love with each other. With effort and commitment, you can become experts on each other, create and maintain a strong couple bubble (as Stan Tatkin PhD refers to a healthy relationship). The two of you can be that great couple!